{"id":35,"date":"2009-06-24T22:38:54","date_gmt":"2009-06-24T22:38:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/s782639264.onlinehome.us\/?p=35"},"modified":"2012-12-18T13:06:37","modified_gmt":"2012-12-18T18:06:37","slug":"good-mommy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/type1demystified.com\/?p=35","title":{"rendered":"Good mommy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span>Parents of children with Type 1 diabetes have no choice but to be involved with our children&#8217;s school. Not that we wouldn&#8217;t be involved anyway, but it does not make us the &#8216;best mommy&#8217; it is a matter of our child&#8217;s life and death.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>My son is starting a new school next year. While that means new books, new bus, new hallways, and new classroom, it also means a new nurse to train in care of Type 1 diabetes. It also means teaching a new teacher, Principal, bus driver and everyone else that comes in contact with my son the symptoms of highs and lows, treatment plan for different numbers, and emergency glucagon treatment.<\/p>\n<p>It also means teaching EVERYONE in the school, parents, children, custodians, and anyone else that may come near my child that he is not a diabetic, he is a little 1st grader with Type 1 diabetes. While this might not make any sense to you, it makes perfect sense to me. Think about this. Pretend your child cannot do math (easy to pretend as a lot of kids can&#8217;t do math). Imagine every time you went to talk to the teacher she called your child the &#8216;math deficient kid.&#8217; Or every time you were in the lunch room they would add up his total cost of the food for your child because he&#8217;s the &#8216;MATH DEFICIENT KID&#8217; over here in line.<\/p>\n<p>My son is a boy with Type 1 diabetes, he is not a diabetic, and he should not be told, &#8220;You are diabetic, you cannot eat that.&#8221; He can eat whatever he wants as long as he covers carbs with insulin. Just like the child who can&#8217;t do math, he should not be told, &#8220;You can add up your own lunch total, you can&#8217;t do math, you&#8217;re math deficient.&#8221; Sounds silly, I know, but I think you get my point.<\/p>\n<p>That is why I am involved in my son&#8217;s school. It is not because I am such a &#8216;good mommy&#8217; as people like to call me. I am just a mom, who would claw through ice to help my son in anyway I can. I want him to be safe in school from a health perspective. I need everyone to know how to recognize high sugar behavior, low sugar behavior and how to treat both. I need him to be safe all day when he is not with me.<\/p>\n<p>I also need to protect his mental health. I need to ensure that people treat him just like every other kid. No withholding snacks because they don&#8217;t understand Type 1 diabetes. Protection of mental health is important for all people, especially a 5 year old boy.<\/p>\n<p>I am not a &#8216;good mommy.&#8217; I am a mom who has a son for whom I would walk over hot coals, diabetes or not.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Parents of children with Type 1 diabetes have no choice but to be involved with our children&#8217;s school. Not that we wouldn&#8217;t be involved anyway, but it does not make us the &#8216;best mommy&#8217; it is a matter of our child&#8217;s life and death. My son is starting a new school next year. 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